Spotted on these apps:
- Hinge
- Bumble
- Tinder
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Omg this guy runs speed dating groups in the GTA. Clearly his hinge photo is not recent LOL so I think you dodged a bullet.
Dated this man for six-ish months almost 9 years ago. Would not recommend. He’s super clingy, really rude and very hot-and-cold. Looks like he hasn’t changed much since, stay away
I know him! Yeah when I was younger we hooked up a bunch of times, I really liked him but he used me and yeah was very hot and cold. Got angry quickly and when didn’t get his way would get really mad.
Chatted with him on Hinge for a spell, but was really turned off. He came across very haughty and self-involved. He went on an absolute mile-long diatribe about wanting to book a local brewery for an event and was furious that they expected him to pay a space rental fee… He said that he was offering them “exposure” and they should be grateful. Like, my guy, that’s how it works.
We dated for a few months back in 2019. Despite his asking to be exclusive, he didn’t seem to grasp the concept! He remained active on ALL dating apps and cheated on me while I was out of the country.
I ended things upon this discovery and tried to have a conversation about it. He acted clueless and denied it. Then stormed off when presented with the receipts!
I wish it ended there, but he proceeded to send hot and cold text messages. One minute he’s begging to get another chance, then he’s cursing and accusing me of seeing his best friend at the time (far from the truth)
I went out with him years ago, I want to say at least 7+ years. I was very different then and haven’t got through my emotional healing so I probably missed a lot of red flags. We went out maybe 2-3 times? I ended up spending some nights cause it was too late for me to travel back and nothing happened when I slept over. However, I remember feeling his hands on me one morning to see if I was awake or maybe up for sexual activity. I just pretended to sleep because I was uncomfortable and not ready for anything physical. I heard him sigh like he was annoyed I wasn’t waking up. Later that morning he shared with me he has Aspergers and it cleared up some things for me, his lack of social skills and how he said everything he thought. I ended things when I realized I wasn’t into him and felt this pressure from him to have sex. There was something about his demeanour that made me uncomfortable to do anything sexual with him, I felt I would freeze up. Maybe it was because I could sense this feeling he wanted me to hurry up my comfort level. Based on this thread, seems his behaviour has gotten worst. I agree with some of the comments mentioning this sense of egotistical behaviour and entitlement.