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- Hinge
- Bumble
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I actually had really fallen for this guy and felt an intense connection which I know is not always a good thing.
We ended up getting into a relationship and dating, but he suddenly became really possessive and controlling, and was constantly accusing me of cheating which to me is a major red flag and sign of projection, as that had actually happened to me when I dated this other guy named Lucas M from Ajax. I thought who knows though maybe it’s just insecurities.
He was also really sexual right away I noticed, and had sent me a lot of sexually explicit images and was always asking for them as well.
He also was getting texts from exes that he showed me in hindsight who he was probably driving insane (this man also activated my psycho so to speak)
Then I found out he has multiple drug and gun charges as well as forcible confinement. I felt so conflicted because of the person he showed me he was, versus his wrap sheet.
When I tried to break up with him, he harassed me so badly by creating different phone numbers and profiles, contacting me and other people that I knew. Practically stalking me. He always wanted to know “my location” The love bombing and roller coaster was so intense. I started to not feel safe. He was also close friends with someone who else went to jail as well for a domestic violence killing and it was just too startling. My alarm bells were ringing hard at this point. Body was having panic attacks.
And once feelings get involved it is so hard to let go sometimes
I even ended up, losing my close girlfriends after him and I broke up. Even after the break up they still didn’t want to associate with me.
I never felt more low and alone at the time. I saved all the screenshots and pictures incase I ever needed them. But I wasn’t ready to share with the group at the time.
I thought maybe he’s not that bad of a person ? But he is a serial cheater and I didn’t feel I could trust him with my sexual health. I didn’t want to put that or more of my life on the line.
I walked away after trying hard to do so for a year. Now life has brought me to my current partner and we are expecting a child. But I still require therapy from Brandon. Can’t lie lol
I’ve known the man for YEARS, never dated him but my sister and friend did .. just run ♀️ He also goes by “ reddy “ his rap sheet is wild
He also goes by Matthew. See the pic.
We met at a club and made out, exchanged numbers and he says he rlly likes me but is very pushy about me coming over also he gets angry easily and hard to communicate.
This is my ex of 7 years – big big big big cheater! He still messages me ALL the time, telling me it will always be me! Lol RUN! I had to block him
He love bombed me off the bat. Kept telling me I was the ‘one’. Got upset when I told him I didn’t want him after he called me a ‘dutty Oshawa ting’ for not showing any interest in him from the get go. He offered for me to move in with him… like I’ve known you for 2 days. He said / did many more things within the short time we ‘chatted’.
Would not even waste my time.