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Had a not very nice encounter with John (luckily not in person). We both swiped right and I messaged first. After some small talk, I asked what he was looking for and I told him I was seeking a LTR. He said the same and then tried to convince me to have him over that evening. I told him it wasn’t my style and we could meet for a drink instead. He then went on to tell me that since I am 40 and wasn’t looking to have children, why did I think I was worthy of anything more than just “fun.” I was blown away. So beyond disrespectful and disappointing. Then he unmatched me before I could even respond (though my response would have been a few choice words for him!) A friend always told me “when they show you their true colours, believe them.” I definitely saw some true colours that night