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Oh man where to start. I’ve only been talking to him for a week, haven’t even met up yet, and he’s already shown such red flags.
First- he got upset that I was still on bumble. And then made it very clear that after we actually went out, I wasn’t allowed to go out with other guys, even if me and him had only gone out twice. We already had to be exclusive. After 2 dates.
Second- I had forgotten to remove the metadata from a photo I texted him. So he used that info to find my address, what car I drive, and where in my house my room is located. And then oh so kindly offered to deliver Starbucks to me. Using the address I didn’t even give him myself. Then when I told him that made me very uncomfortable, he insisted it was my own fault and I was in the wrong for sending him the photo with the location on.
Third- this one’s related to the second but- when I told him it wasn’t going to work out, check out the response I got.