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I’m pretty sure he stole that cowboy hat look from me. He saw me in a cowboy hat, now he wears one. Narcissist
He never wants anything serious. Don’t get me wrong the questions is used to get a feel about someone’s life. However whenever I see my family, they always ask me if I’m in a relationship or not. I always respond with no because I’m not interested in dating right now, because I learned that I have to love myself before I love someone else.
Recently my grandma (step father side), cousins, and other family friends, who I see quite a lot, tend to ask me why.
Why? I don’t see the point in explaining if you ask me every month. At first it was a simple question to answer and I didn’t mind giving them a shrug and explaining I’m not ready yet. Now, it’s obnoxious. I see them. We hug. They ask me how I am, and vice versa. Then they ask if I’m in a relationship and why am I not in one. Now I just shrug and try to change the subject.
I don’t know if it’s because every one of my cousins and family friends kids are in relationships and out of all of them I’m not, or they are just fucking stupid. I can’t decide what to choose. But at this point I’m going with they are fucking stupid.
I just recently turned 20. Two decades of being alive and once I turned around 15 or so, the question was brought up. My mom stays silent and my step dad could care less about my relationship status, which I’m grateful for. Now the way I see it, is that they don’t expect me to be in a relationship. Im not pretty or very outgoing. I make friends but they’ve never lead to anything more than friends. Which Is perfectly fine with me, it’s just the ‘why’ of it all.
I hope I don’t sound like I’m complaining because I feel like I am. I’m just over it. The question just feels forced now and not even a natural question about someone’s life and it’s tiring.
And if it’s not enough he’s a trump supporter. I’m scared Trump will get elected in 2024
All my life, democracy was a given — its continued existence living in perpetuity. For the longest time I thought things would subsidize after Trump got ousted from office. I didn’t foresee (this was during the brief period after Biden had won and before the transition had happened) the insurrection happening, I desperately hoped he wouldn’t run in 2024. With the recent doubling down of Trump’s “dictator for a day” comments (including numerous incidents of effusive praising of autocrats), I’m scared. Really scared. That he’s going to destroy this country by instituting everything outlined in (Edit: changed 2024 to 2025) Project 2025. Turning the United States into a Trumpian dictatorship.
To anyone who shares the same thoughts as me, I hope you know you’re not alone out there.
This is my boyfriend, he cheats on my all the time. Narcissist.
Great guy! Very funny and sexy!
Are you currently engaging with him or from past experiences?
He’s engaged? What the hell!!! What a slut!!!!
Someone should tell his fiance