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Amazing role-playing partner!
We started off innocently, pretending we were going to fake our own death and start a new life in the Cayman Island. He continued to escalate the game by hiring a fake family and his “wife” almost caught us one day when she was at “church”. To show my commitment to the game, when It was turn to host date night, I hired a burglar off the dark web to break in my home. Matthew thought the staged break in was real and did a number on the actor. After stopping him and helping the would-be victim. The 3 of us watched a few movies and made a new friend in the swinger community and now we’re happily together in a non-monogamous marriage. 10/10 husband material can vouch that he will defend you. Not the sharpest guy in the bunch but now we have safe words, when playing out a scene. Let us know if you want to join us for our next story or a dnd night
Omg! Ok went on a date July 2020.
This is how it went.
1. Immediately asks me to come over to his place even though I had already set my boundaries.
2.Lucky for us we actually live walking distance of each other. Since it was quarantine we went for a walk, and this is when he told me “you’re lucky we live so close because if I had to drive, I probably wouldn’t have came”
3.I’m not sure if he was joking or not on this one but..He then proceeded to tell me he doesn’t want to live with his wife and kids. He thinks it’s best for the relationship. Again, I’m not sure if he was joking or not.
4.After date would only text me past 11pm. Always asking me to come over.
After all of this I finally put my foot down with him and he blocked me
This was also three years ago so maybe he’s a changed man?
That’s alarming, thanks for sharing!
He might be changed man, but maybe not. We had 2 great dates, was not sexual, had a quick kiss at the end. I have mixed feelings about him though. He indeed seems to be quite cocky and his humour is a bit weird. I wouldn’t say he responds only after certain time but most of them it’s late night. However, he drove from north to downtown both times, and was not talking about have a night together
Thanks for sharing anyways.
I’ve known Matthew for years and there’s no way he’d date you. You are way out of his league hun. Clearly a bot sent you to put nasty stuff online about him.