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Dan and I met about 3 years ago. We hit it off immediately and started talking every day and dating (semi) casually. He was always saying he was too busy for anything serious. He would constantly Snapchat me him at work and he was often traveling, which all checked out. We had been very on and off (mostly if he went out of town for long periods of time or if I started seeing someone who was actually wanting to commit.) About 6 weeks ago, I noticed a story he posted just of dog and someone else’s dog he shared from another girl. I clicked on her profile and she had posts that looked very bf/gf… grant you we had JUST hooked up the day before he left town and I saw this the day he got back! We had been hooking up pretty regularly so now I know he was sleeping with both of us as the same time I called him out and he said they were “just talking” but I saw they just went to Alaska and Seattle together. He has snapchatted me shirtless pics twice now since I called him out (one was last night) and I just looked up his bumble to check his age and of course he had just signed on because his location was in Washington! Run if you ever see or match with him
I’ve known Dan for 6+ yrs. We met in stl. Dated heavily and now he swings by during his road trips at my home in Destin, FL. I, too, saw he was posting his latest victims’ dog, followed the bread crumbs to her Instagram with clarity that they’re an item and called him out after he had just stayed with me before and after after his Texas/Arizona trip. He has also recently sent me shirtless pictures or whatever is inflating his ego for the day but I’ve since deleted him from my snap. I could go on and on…
we literally hooked up the night before he left for that trip! Does he think we are stupid? Apparently I’ve been pretty naive for 3 years, but he can’t keep his secrets anymore! I feel bad for the girl, but she will figure it out too!!
Maybe that we are stupid, but more-so that he’s so smart. My guess is he’s a narcissistic sex addict and he’ll never commit or stop hooking up with anyone who opens the door for him. I really hope someone she knows shows this to her.