Spotted on these apps:
- Tinder
- OkCupid
- Match.com
- eHarmony
- Grindr
- Adult Friend Finder
- Other
- eharmony
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THIS guy. He is a cheater and refers to all of his exes as “crazy” (RED FLAG). He works as a vet doing surgery in Portland/Beaverton, so he has a decent job. In reality, he does not have any friends, is man-child and has a lot of toxic personality traits. STEER CLEAR, ladies.
Cheater, liar, and emotional abuser. Gaslit me for several years.
Was in a 7 year relationship when he cheated on me with someone 1/2 his age. Never admitted to doing anything wrong and continues to make others believe that he is a “good guy”.