Spotted on these apps:
- Hinge
- Bumble
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He seems like he has some serious mental illness and needs to get help. He will do whatever he can to insult you and put you down so he can feel better about himself. People like this already know you are above them so they try to drag you down with them. Good job on blocking this clown
Why in the world do I see so many comments saying “you stayed way longer than you should’ve”??? Those statements show very obviously you ladies have been lucky enough to never be with an abusive or manipulative individual. Let’s be thankful this beautiful girl is AWAY from him and brave enough to give us a heads up so no one else has to experience it.
You’re so strong and should be incredibly proud of your ability to know you deserve better.
Ohoho, girls. We matched in Bumble last week. We started the conversation, he seemed to be a little aggressive and I said him I felt uncomfortable. He said sorry and after that we flirted, he sent me a cute selfie. I asked him does he live by himself, he said that he lived with his mother because he successfully invested a lot of money and he’s too smart for spending it to the rent and wanted to invest in a new business while other people will become more and more poor and stupid and will eat the plankton briquettes or smth like that. I asked why he think so and he became extremely aggressive. He said that “I can’t believe I have to explain that to a woman in your age” and you’re too dumb for me, buy, stupid kiddo” and deleted the chat. I felt awful.
*** I know I should have blocked him before and didn’t. I regret about it. I would appreciate if you don’t tell him about this and just report him or block him if you see him on Instagram or tinder. I don’t need more hate from him. I seem very chill on the chats but I am really on tears. ***
We started talking in February in Tinder. We talked until late May. We didn’t meet because I have been waiting on my passport papers. I told him about it, he was cool with it.
Months after, he started to being verbally aggressive to me. He called me several things such as: low value woman, trying to entertain men, and before I cut him off he was very abusive, saying I acted like a wh**re, etc. He knew whenever I followed someone new and he would get triggered. He would cut me off and then apologize no longer after. I cannot only blame him because I also took him back. He said that if I wanted to be with him, I had to delete my social media, to which I told him: NO. He said he would never be date a girl like me. He said I love entertaining men on my social profile and I told him that if he didn’t like me he was able to go and find someone as he wants then and that obeys whatever he said. Then, he apologized, again. Some weeks after, he told me I couldn’t have male friends, because his girlfriend could not have any other friend than him. To which I said, I love my male friends and I wouldn’t change them because a boyfriend. He changed his opinion and said he would “let me” have male friends.
His excuse was that he felt less than me. He was scared that he wouldn’t make enough money to provide for me. Said that he was afraid he couldn’t “afford me” because I come from a wealthy family. To which I told him, I didn’t care really about his financial status, as long as he had goals.
I was finally able to break the toxic cycle in May. I cut him off because he called me a “retard” and “useless person”. Unexpectedly, I just moved to London for work. We haven’t talked for almost one month now, and last week my friend liked his picture because she thought she was being funny. And today, he messaged me. He sent a funny meme and I didn’t reply to it. He proceed to insult me.