Spotted on these apps:
- Bumble
- Tinder
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went on a date with him. He hadn’t shown me any red flags prior and wasn’t bad looking, but I didn’t feel it and we just had a walking date. Things took a turn for the worse when he started doing the same as what you described but after the date. When I asserted boundaries and told him I wasn’t interested, he continued to send unsolicited dick pics, long paragraphs about wanting to see me again, and texting me from another number after I blocked him. Definitely stay away.
I went on a date with him! Oh my god he did the same thing asked for a recent picture of me so I did. Then he said I hope you don’t mind I have longer hair now and sent photos. I was still into him (though much less attracted to the long hair) and we had already made coffee plans so I went on a date. This was in august… so him not having updated his profile since this is just wild.
Anyways I got the ick on our coffe date when 1. He did pay for my coffee but just got water for himself because he doesn’t drink coffee. (WHY agree to a coffee date then!)
2. He told me how many roommates he has which was like 4? – no shade we’ve all struggled in this city but I’m considerably younger and more successful than him so it’s just not my things personally.
3. He refused to let me walk to my car alone that was less than 1 block away. I hate that because then they expect a kiss
4. You guessed it he went in for the kiss. Ended up kissing his cheek
Then I told him afterward that I just don’t think we’re a good connection and wished him luck and he FLIPPED OUT blaming his lack of dating recently and saying he was just out of practice. I left him on read. Then 2 weeks later got “damn a shame we didn’t work out I was looking forward to seeing that gorgeous body of yours” I immediately blocked within 30 seconds of getting that text… I’m sure a disturbing photo or video would follow now reading these comments.
Wtf is up with men!
Met Chris on Tinder. He seemed like a nice guy & could hold an actual messaging convo so we started making plans to meet in person. We exchanged numbers & started texting. The day before we were going to meet up he asked me to send a recent pic of myself that wasn’t on my app profile. I did & asked the same of him (bc SO many guys have catfished me & look nothing like their profiles when we meet). Then he sent his pic! Granted you can tell it’s the same person but he looks totally different now. I politely told him I wasn’t interested in meeting up anymore. He said he understood & we stopped texting. I told him he should update his pics & he said he didn’t have time
FOUR days later I wake up to a text from him (we’d already decided to not meet & I made it clear I wasn’t interested) saying “woke up thinking about you” and a video- not a pic but a whole ass VIDEO of him stroking his hard-on.
I replied back saying it was completely disrespectful & disgusting to which he said “oh. What. You don’t like it”…blocked him & reported his profile.
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