Spotted on these apps:
- Bumble
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I went out with him once, pre-COVID. At that time, he was looking for a Dom/Sub relationship (which he alluded to in his profile with something like “willing to commit if you meet his standards”. From what I understand of a D/s relationship and have read here, he’s not really a Dom. He seems more someone looking for power and control (like my being asleep by 11:00 for work and he’d text after 11:00. Also some gaslighting about whether he’d texted when he said he would, etc…) For me, it was too much work, too early.
He’s a mess, we matched he wanted talk on app. I said ok and said I can talk now. I waited an hour and said how about tomorrow after 7pm. He didn’t call and I asked him on app if he’s calling or am I. No response so I deleted him. Looks like drama and I’m glad dodged that bullet.