Byron, 41

BEWARE: NARCISSISTIC SOCIOPATH
STATES: CA , CO, GA

He will give you a fake name and fake number while he’s cheating on his current supply with you. Or maybe Knight maybe he’ll give you his real name it depends on his situation at the time. He has actually been diagnosed as having a personality disorder. Yes, he is a marine, but his PTSD stems from childhood trauma. He will give you a sob story that is untrue. He is a sex addict and will not use a condom with his plethora of partners. He will try to have a baby with you really really quickly because he tends to use the child in order to extend his time of you taking care of him!

When you meet him, he may currently have a job or not. If he does, and as soon as he moves in with you, he will no longer have that job because he will be focused on one of his entrepreneurial projects. The only money that he brings in is from disability from the military. He may eventually get a job maybe but even after you beg and plead for him to help you out financially because now y’all have kids, he still won’t budge. I don’t think he cares about you being pregnant. Were you wanting to stay home with the baby? No, even after you’ve had a C-section you find yourself having go back to work five weeks post while he sits on his ass and is staying home with your baby that you’re supposed to be Bonding with. He’ll just continue to appease you and tell you that he has some stuff coming in from acting or he’s doing some stuff online. But the whole time while you’re at work all he’s doing is swiping left or right and playing video games on his phone and catching up on anime.

His credit is atrocious. He is not financially responsible not even a little bit. He defaults on his credit cards. He just walks away from bills and just not pay. He does not care about his credit so he is unable to even have a cosigner or able to get a vehicle from a reputable dealership. He will not be able to help you build any type of generational wealth, he doesn’t care about his credit and he definitely doesn’t care about yours.

His background story of when he was 16 years old is a lie, he never went to college, he’s taken programs, but has never finished and he didn’t finish paying for them either.
Mostly everything that he owns, was either stolen from one of his exes, or was paid for by someone else.

When you ask him about the tattoos on his body, that seems to be of children that he has he will claim two of them but the third who is half Hispanic he will give you some story about who that person is. It is his daughter. Not only does he have three kids he actually has five that we know about. However, someone that is a sex addict who does not wear condoms and does have super sperm most likely has way more than that but how was these females know when he gave them a fake name and number. The children that are in his life which it may only be one which is a daughter depending on how everything goes down currently with custody. He will use her to make him look like super dad, but he’s not even a little bit, and she knows the truth. And you will notice that he will not hardly spend any money on any of his kids, including yours, but he’ll find money to pay for his own personal things.

He has been married for a total of three times. He has been engaged while still being married, and has actually gotten married while still being married, he will go the distance and I hope that you are not married to him because he does owe over $72,000 in child support so whatever account he’s on with you your money will get taken. He may give it back to you and he may not. I was lucky I got my money back. The only child he has on child support is his oldest. So if you did your research on him it’s very difficult to find out about any of the other kids unless you know who his exes are.

The love bombing, the bomb sex only in the beginning, the surprises that he actually is using your money for, it’s all an amazing feeling. He mirrors you so perfectly where you can’t even believe that you finally met the love of your life and you never want to let him go. This brother’s manipulation is so good you don’t even realize you’re being manipulated and he is able to stay consistently the same person until you reach the 2 1/2 year mark, and then his mask starts slipping. If you confront him about anything, he will throw how you’re being disrespectful in your face, he will criticize you in forms of jokes, he will patronize you, he will gaslight the mess out of you, All the while you know in your gut that you were right. I’m sure he will tell you about his dad just know that he is his dad times 10.

That bomb sex that you had in the beginning is no more for someone who has a high sex drive he barely will come onto you. You start to feel like you’re his mother. Because he’s actually having his bomb sex with all these other women that he’s cheating on you with. He will put on the show in public and act like he’s the man and hold onto you and caress you, and be affectionate to make it look like you guys are the super happy couple, while in the background behind closed doors, he wants to lay on your lap or he wants you to spoon him and you realize he doesn’t even like it when you lay on him and he wants you to be the aggressor and the times you want to have sex all the sudden he’s too tired or stays up super late and not come to bed until you’ve already fallen asleep. Because you’re not his sex supply, your his financial supply, where he is living a stress-free and easy life while you’re stressed out of your mind.

The waterworks show, the orange eyes that start to turn color when he becomes unhinged from being confronted about some craziness that you cannot wrap your head around. He will steal your money, he will drive around in your nice luxury car to pick up chicks and possibly bring your beautiful car that you’re paying an arm and a leg for back with some sort of damage, he will use your credit cards, the joint account that you guys have opened up is so that he can spend your money, he may deposit some money in there, but then he’ll turn around and pull it right back out only moments later, he will steal things from you, he will put his hands on you towards the end if you guys get into an argument that becomes super heated ,my suggestion is stay very calm and play dumb. Track your car, he’s on your phone line, so look and see who he’s texting and calling and do background checks on them. Eventually, you’ll find all the proof that you need. And you’ll sit here and wonder when did he have time to cheat when we’re always together? It may be when he’s dressing up to pretend like he’s going to work and the entire time he’s entertaining and cultivating other relationships, all the while you guys are sharing each other’s locations? He’s only using us so he can see where you are, and then all the sudden he’ll stop sharing his location and gaslight you about it. Oh, the phone must be trippin’. No sis it’s because he’s out doing his dirt, you know it in your gut you know what’s going on you need to trust your instinct and escape before the devaluing phase, where it will be major, mental scarring and abuse, especially when he discards you. So do yourself a favor and discard of him first.

Find out what’s the longest friendship that he has had outside of his best friend, who is very much like him as well, and they were both in the military together, or another friend of his that they’re not really around each other like that, but he’s had since high school, find out who his actually closest friends are most likely will not have any because he is unable to hold onto a job, he is unable to hold on to any type of relationship, stuff with his family is very iffy. Sometimes they’re talking sometimes they’re not. But if you ever do end up meeting his mom just ask her a couple questions because she will not lie for him so he doesn’t like it when his partners speak with her.

If you’re not super familiar with how narcissists operate, I suggest you download an audiobook and get to listening so when it’s happening to you you know exactly what’s going on or else anyone who has narcissistic personality disorder will take you on a wild ride to where the strong, beautiful, highly intelligent, successful woman that you were when you met this person you don’t even recognize yourself by the time they are done with you. You do not have a weakness you have a strength, and all they are is energy vampires, sucking the very life out of you.