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Oh my gosh I know him! He goes to Salsa class with me and has always been decently nice. Granted him and I are zero percent romantically attracted to each other so how he treats me would be very different than a potential romantic partner but even in a platonic relationship he has had weird boundary issues. He fully yelled at another dance partner of mine and sulked when I danced with him first. He’s kind but a little strange. He has talked to me about a girl he was pursuing a month or so ago and said he was bringing flowers and was super taking his time but at the same time a ton of women were throwing themselves at him that he wasn’t really shrugging off. Let me know if you need more info I’m happy to help.
Sorry but he is not dangerous, just immature and very emotionally sensitive in a almost gay way. He belongs to a gym that’s like older people doing yoga and exercises like that, very big on family and traditional so annoyingly close to his mom. He will be a lot with neediness but I have told him to back off and had an adult conversation with him where we discussed communication styles and he adjusted that. I met him after a long term relationship and he was clear he wasn’t ready emotionally, can confirm he doesn’t date multiple women and will be clear with other girls. I would set him up with a friend that I felt liked this type of communication and attention but he falls way more to the feminine side of the spectrum than most prefer. If you can set clear boundaries, over communicate, are cool with a traditional overbearing fam he will be great for you. Def has his shit together, but overall not for everyone.
I’d be cautious with Michael. I had to block him because he wouldn’t leave me alone. Also spent our date showing me pics of all his ex girlfriends which was super weird- didn’t seem like they were aware he was snapping photos of them. When I cut things off was a complete smartass about it but didn’t leave me alone afterwards. Caught him on my IG stories a couple of times when we aren’t connected. Weird vibes forsure.
Stay far, far away. He is a love bomber and goes from girl to girl every six weeks. But Jackie, his dog is super great!