Dylan, 32

Dated him for 8 years, was cheated on the entire time with dozens of girls. Textbook narcissist, incredibly manipulative, compulsive liar about anything and everything, extreme gaslighter, verbally and emotionally abusive, sex/alcohol/drug addict. All his pictures on dating apps are a decade old and his bio is 99% lies (his age, horoscope, and gender are the only truths lol). He comes across as very charming and has invented a fake life story to impress women and be admired, however it is all fiction. Any story about his exes (he will talk about me incessantly) he plays the victim, and many of these stories are actually true… but with the roles reversed claiming he was cheated on and abused and lied to and used for money and sex. He is very cheap and selfish and if he doesn’t get his way he is beyond mean and abusive. He will have unprotected sex with anyone he can manipulate into it and won’t take no for an answer and does not get tested for sti. I have thousands of receipts to back up all of this unfortunately. He will still deny and refuse to take accountability for his actions until the fake tears and empty apologies come out to manipulate you into believing he will change. If that doesn’t work he will verbally assault you until you break and blame you for his actions while inventing scenarios that never happened to gaslight you and paint himself as a victim and you as the abuser and cheater and liar. It took me 8 years to learn that his behaviour is textbook narcissistic ABUSE and he masqueraded trauma bonds as love to control and trap me. Do not fall for his charisma and charm, he will seem like the greatest guy in the world and is extremely likeable. This is all a game of control and manipulation, he is a professional at living a double life. I blocked him everywhere and he continues to harass me via email 8 months later (as shown in photo). He is persistent, and stalks me on dating apps and through mutual friends. Run.