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Myself and several others found out that we were all in “monogamous relationships” with him at the same time. He was sexually involved with all of us, claimed exclusivity.
How He Operates:
• Fast-tracks emotional connection – Texts/video calls daily, says deep affectionate things early (often copy-pasted to multiple women).
• Love-bombs early – Calls you special, talks about a future—while telling others the same thing.
• Rotates locations – Spends weekends with different women, saying he’s with family (sister, parents, grown kids).
•. Travels frequently for work, which makes it easy for him to juggle multiple women
• Avoids defining the relationship – Keeps things vague so he can keep his options open.
• Plays the victim when caught – Claims he’s lonely, struggling, and “needs help.” has been in and out of therapy. Dash is completely honest with them every time he is, but he just hasn’t found one that has really been able to help him break the cycle yet.
• Expects forgiveness but doesn’t change – Uses pleas for compassion and pity instead of accountability.
What We Discovered:
•. I found out he was seeing 5 of us at the exact same time, spanning multiple states. However, there are a few that popped in and out well the rest of us thought we were in monogamous, long-term relationship relationships with him.
• Engaged in unprotected sex with multiple partners, despite claiming exclusivity.
• Copy-pasted the same apology when caught.
• Been doing this for 20+ years— his ex-wife confirmed it’s a long-standing pattern. it’s one of the reasons they divorced.
• Ex communicated from the LDS (Mormon ) church due to this behavior.