Todd, 59

Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

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Anonymous
4 months ago

Stay away from him, ladies. Have the proof to back up my claims from Facebook. Liar, cheater and deceiver. Todd is an elder goth. He will be great with you in the beginning and he sounds believable at first until his true colours show. Although, everyone he knows who is not romantically involved with him seems to think that he is a great guy, save for long distance relationship woman from Germany who he has wrapped around his finger. His relationship status on social media is “separated” but he is still married and living with his wife even if that’s how he feels about her in his heart. He claimed that his wife was initially cheating on him and that he stayed in a bad marriage for the sake of his children but they are well grown. yet he hasn’t gotten his own place and moved out. It’s not like he can’t afford to have a place of his own. He says that he is in an open marriage but there were a number of things that contradicted that. He filed for divorce in the summer of 2021 but claims that his wife won’t sign the divorce papers. His wife found out about his long distance girlfriend from Germany back around 2020 when she came for a visit and his wife was really upset about it, according to him.

He said that he wasn’t serious with long distance girlfriend anymore and started a new relationship in August 2023 with someone he used to work with back in the nineties and was in contact with on Facebook. Broke up on September 21, 2023. Suspect that he was continuing his long distance relationship with German woman. He didn’t tell new girlfriend that LDR woman was coming to visit him until three days before she was due to arrive. He didn’t tell LDR woman that he was in a new relationship with current girlfriend. Said that he slept around twice on LDR woman before and claimed that he felt guilty about it. When new girlfriend warned LDR woman about what he was doing she ignored the message and blocked her. Two of his previous romantic relationships with women ended in disaster.(one in New York the other in California). He travels to Europe including Germany to visit LDR woman and she takes trips to see him. He travels to the USA including Detroit. He might ask you to sleep with him without a condom. He also might sneak you into his house when his wife isn’t home.

Anonymous
Anonymous
4 months ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Correction: Meant to say that LDR woman also thinks he is great hence having her wrapped around his finger.

Anonymous
Anonymous
4 months ago
Reply to  Anonymous

UPDATE: Todd just started a new relationship with a woman in November 2023 after ending his last relationship in September 2023. He displayed their relationship status on his social media profile. To make matters worse his new girlfriend has multiple sclerosis, like she needs anymore problems. She was sent a warning message with some screenshots. Thought LDR woman made herself open to having a mature conversation this time but was proven wrong when she made herself unavailable in private messaging for a third time. So she’s blocked. If anyone from Hamilton knows Todd’s wife please leave a comment asking me to direct message you.

L T
L T
4 months ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Hello, I’m his new woman! Please take down all these lies! We know who you are and we are taking legal action as we speak.

CM
CM
28 days ago
Reply to  L T

First of all, if this is really you and not Todd impersonating you, I am not lying! Defamation is not permitted on this website. If it’s discovered they remove the posts and ban the poster. You can also request from the admin of this site to have the post removed so long as you have proof to back up your claim that I am lying. You are so desperate to cling to a man that you willingly overlooked the screenshots that I sent you on Facebook to show you that he was not up to any good when I was with him. I told you that I have the entire conversation in its context between he and I saved. I would have gladly showed it to you in its context but you told me not to contact you anymore. Since you are responding to me here I will respond back. Second, who do you think you are getting involved with something that only concerns Todd and I ? This has nothing to do with you. You have a lot of nerve, honey! What legal action do you speak of? Taking me to court? The case would be thrown out, you and Todd would look like fools. if it even went to trial at all. The most a Lawyer might do is file a cease and desist order. That’s it. However, you and Todd already know that don’t you? You are only trying to intimidate me into being silent. Also, I found out that a couple of Todd’s former girlfriends didn’t have good things to say about him. In fact one of them had a similar experience to me: he lied to her about breaking up with his long-distance girlfriend when they were really having a relationship the entire time. She told the LDR woman what was going on, told her what a dog Todd was, texted with her for hours to help her move on from Todd. What does the LDR woman do after all that? She goes back to Todd. Also Todd kept denying to her the whole time that he and the LDR woman were having a relationship but she knew that they were. Todd made a bunch of empty promises to her. Claimed that he filed for bankruptcy when he went down to meet her and had to keep checking the ATM to see if he got money. She thinks he was looking for a sugar mama. When she had enough with Todd’s bs she started seeing other men and he got angry about that. He texted people that she knew and told them she was a whore and was the one with the mental problems. In the end Todd and the LDR woman blocked her and kicked her out of the Facebook groups that they ran. She heard through mutual friends that Todd was still seeing the LDR woman and was also seeing several, if not many women while he was with the LDR woman. One of them being the other girlfriend who said that Todd is a dead beat dude. And you know something? Both of them thought that they met a remarkable man unlike any other man. The LDR woman thinks that there is no other man like him in Germany. I thought that too until I saw the real person that he is and I knew him since 1995 when we worked together at a radio station. It goes to show you how deceptive people can be. I don’t believe that he has an open marriage, in fact I don’t know how his wife stands staying married to him. He could have easily divorced his wife if he really wanted to, like he claims that he wants to: As long as he can provide proof that a mental breakdown resulted from the marriage or he can prove that adultery took place then he can still get a divorce even if his wife doesn’t consent and doesn’t sign the papers. As you may remember I told you that he didn’t display his relationship status with me on his profile but he did with you. Do you know why I think he did that? He did it because of status. You are a well known person in your city, people know you from having been on TV for a long time and he wants everyone to know that he’s dating you. The LDR woman is a doormat so I’m sure whatever excuse he told her about you was suitable to her but I guarantee you that he is still carrying on with her online through text and facetime. He might even arrange to see her face to face again sometime. Also, don’t be surprised if he has other women on the side too. In fact, I think he might be the type of sleaze bag to even have a go at me again in the bedroom if he knew that he could get it from me while he’s still with you. Be assured that I wouldn’t let that happen. He’s a charmer, honey. He sounds believable at first. You just have to learn your lesson the hard way. Please don’t contact me again. Thank you.

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