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He could never take anything seriously when we dating in middle school. I just don’t get it, whenever I hear, people seeking the least possible painful way of committing suicide. I don’t even get why people fear pain, I get the fear of what often comes with pain but not the thing itself. Sometimes when I feel suicidal my thoughts aren’t how to die painlessly. My thoughts are on how to die unnoticed. Because while I may want to die I don’t want people to get affected by it. My plans always go somewhere along the line, of disappearing leaving behind a card saying I need a break so I took off and started traveling. Best of luck to you back here. Then make around 50 notes. Get a service to send them progressively longer between. Like 1 months 2 month 4 months and so on. Saying I’m doing well no specifics, just talking about its fine and I hope you guys are still doing well. Then I often find myself wondering whether that is truly better, feeding people lies.
Pesonally I’d want the truth, and it wouldn’t affect me that much, but my experience says people want lies. In fact in all my life people who don’t prefer lies are a rarity. And people who don’t prefer lies, most of them probably still do. honestly I hate society it feels so empty, its just that everyone wants to view the world so black and white. Always take things so literally, never ever doubting. And those who do doubt never do anything else, never free themselves from words. Black and white. adding a few more colors sometimes is just so depressing, so many colors lost. Even “smart” people always have a black and white approach to things. It’s so sad and frustrating. People are always so fixated on statistics. Think they can fix the world, think that there needs to be heavy morals.
No one ever questioning their current logic current believes. Being so self sure. Even those who claim they don’t, or should I say especially those that claim they don’t. I wonder I hope I find myself curious, but only abou what is going to happen, I know I won’t be alive for when any of that happens. something 200 years into the future, none of us will be alive. I know there is a good chance I’ll never be happy with the way the world is, I know I don’t really care about living or life. I still do, out of obligation, out of the simple fact that I’d achieve nothing by dying, and living there is at least a hope. Out of the simple fact that pain doesn’t really matter, even if I suffer for the rest of my life, so what?
There is still a chance I might find something of true interest. And while alive my senses still direct me, some people say dying is easy, well living is just as easy. Its just dying is tempting, so tempting because living and dying if you don’t really care which one you do, and there is only 2 options, well of course both will be tempting, and I already lived. So dying I haven’t tried. In the end I feel like when people tell people not to suicide, they achieve nothing. Those people still feel the same, and it doesn’t really matter why. Its not that important yet everyone always makes such a big fuss out about it.
Its become a social thing, its like racism in many ways. Its a social mindset that is forbidden to question as long as you reside in a group of that mindset. If you lived in a world filled with racists, you can’t say racism is bad, well you can but no one would agree, you’d be laughed at scoffed at. Unless you could find someway to convince people, that they are being silly and what they are doing is simply paranoia. Its overreacting, and is on a longerterm plan unhealthy and it doesn’t really fix anything. I kinda feel like most social ideas are like that, stupid but no one questions them. Not because they don’t want to, but because they are scarred of being looked upon strangely and don’t really see anything they would achieve. The future is hard to predict.
So doing something that isn’t normally done, is not normally done. For a multitude of reasons, I feel like we’re every bit as big a failure as ever, and i feel like I’m the greatest failure among us. I know this is a mindset I don’t want, I know it came because i have never truly been happy, I know it came from immature fear. And I know I can’t get rid of it easily. Its a self devouring notion, I have always hated it. But that part of me hating it, is the same part I hate. I’m so stressed so confused why is nothing I do working why do I not get any further or make any progress.
But in truth all I ever do is make progress I’m just never satisfied with it. But I don’t know how to make myself satisfied with it. Its frustrating, but even that, I’m probably making progress with. What I’m not satisfied with is probably just how long it will take or could take to ever solve it for real, to a point I’d be satisfied with in the future when I reach it.. Perhaps even longer than life Because I’d need to stop increasing my expectations as I get closer to them.
wait i’m pretty his names lachlan lol… from sherwood park, 26 & has a gf as far as i know? i could be wrong but 90% positive if anyone else can confirm