Spotted on these apps:
- Hinge
- Bumble
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Carm, 39 was added to Are We Dating The Same on June 9, 2023. Any views, thoughts, and opinions expressed about Carm, 39 by the commenters are solely that of the commentor and do not reflect the views, opinions, policies, or position of Are We Dating The Same.
Small pic of face.
I think I give up. This dude was good looking, makes delicious food, and has tattoos… but is a f boy/meathead/mysoginistic.
It’s official. I prefer money now. Who needs to wish to be in a loving and supportive relationship when there’s money as a tool to give you almost everything?
Too many scrubs out there. They expect you to accommodate them but are unwilling to do the same.
Protect and provide. Make us feel safe to actually be affectionate women towards them.
Buuuuulllshiiit. What nonsense.
Oh Carm such a douch. I’ve known him for years. Started to talk around Christmas. Very casually. And within the first two conversations on the phone, he was incredibly judge mental misogynistic, and had an opinion and criticized almost everything I said. If I would say something about a club or a certain restaurant, he would reply “like oh that’s where all the wannabe gangsters and only fan girls go because they’re broke and wannabe’s “ It make comments like oh I certainly hope you’re mature enough and classy enough not to go to those places. Would send me videos of his very large family house talking about the eggs very expensive steaks and very expensive this and that. It just sounded like he was overcompensating for many things. Including personality. After the second phone call, I was just like yeah I’m not feeling this ignored him ghosted him. He was just so cringe.
From things he has said to her, he seems totally misogynistic and I’d say even racist. No filter and is rude.
He invited her over to make dinner for her, sent her a scandalous type video, and when she said she was uninterested in coming over to get laid, he got defensive. Literally said something like who said I’d give it up to you anyway??
From what I’ve seen as an outside looking in, has no confidence, is disrespectful and doesn’t take rejection well.
His wine and pizza/dinner night at his place seems to be his game to get women to come over just so he can get laid. Didn’t have the nicest things to say about women he as dating.
In my honest opinion, on paper seems like a good catch, from what she has said, a literal walking meat head.
I spoke to him years ago, he was super pushy and rude. Insisted I pay for an Uber to come see him and then got upset when I said no (I was a broke law student at the time). His idea of a first date was cooking for me at his house (we all know what move they are trying to pull when they suggest that). I ended up blocking him. This had to be around 5 years ago, so seems like he’s made himself well at home on the apps.