Noel, 25

Boston, Massachusetts, United States

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1 month ago

I matched with this guy on Hinge and exchanged phone numbers. About a week later he asked me to get dinner/drinks. We met at Venezia Restaurant in Dorchester. At dinner he ordered 2 bottles of wine, which he didnt ask if I even liked, and was pressuring me to keep up with his drinking. On the date I found out that he does not actually live in Cambridge, but rather in Rhode Island. After dinner he asked me if I wanted to smoke a joint. I declined because it was late, and he insisted it would be quick and pressured me to his car. As soon as I was in the car, he got on 93S and I could see on his phone GPS in his lap that he had the destination set to his place and was heading towards 95S towards RI. I asked him where he was going and he said “what do you mean? we’re going to my place.” I said I had no intention of leaving my car behind or leaving boston and asked him to go back to the restaurant. He continued to try and convince me to go with him, still driving in the wrong direction for another 10 minutes. I told him my roommate is expecting me home and my sister knows I am on a date and has access to my location. After I said this he agreed to turn around and bring me back. I tried to play calm but I was terrified, and he became angry and agressive towards me for “implying he had bad intentions.” I was clearly terrified and very untrusting of him and that made him more agitated so I tried to play it cool. He was driving extremely fast and also pulled over into the breakdown lane 2x to “talk” where he also pushed himself on me and shoved his tongue down my throat. I alerted my sister and her husband who were waiting for us when we got back to the restaurant. He didnt want me to get out of the car, and I told him they were here for me to make sure I get home safe. Once I was out of the car he sped off and then continued to call and text me multiple times. This man essentially abducted me from an empty parking lot after our date and tried to smuggle me to his apartment over an hour away without any conversation or consent. If I had been as drunk as he hoped I would be, I believe this encounter would have ended very differently.

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Anonymous
1 month ago
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I’m glad you’re safe 🫂

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