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He has a long history of being explosively angry, unstable, and cruel. I’ve spoken with a few of his exes, and it’s pretty clear he is a narcissist…like clinically diagnosable narcissistic personality disorder. He’s been arrested several times, once for domestic violence, and he has issues with substance abuse. He’s exploitative, dishonest, racist, and has been fired from 2 or 3 jobs for interpersonal problems. That’s pretty hard to do. You have to be a massive asshole to get fired for being an asshole, let alone multiple times.
He just told me he wanted to hit me and that I would “make him a woman beater,” because I admitted to him that I had recorded him the last time he berated and verbally abused me.
He will ruin your life, and on top of all of this, he has ED and can’t perform sexually. If you think he will treat you well, if you think you will be the exception, don’t. You will end up like everyone else in his life. His dad, twin brother, and daughter all refuse to speak to him, and none of his exes have anything good to say.
Be warned.