jessica, 41

This person fell for me hard. I did nothing but give her her own space, buy her thoughtful gifts, cook her dinner, thoughtful and passionate lovers. Intellectuals having great conversations. This issue is her bipolar episodes are not under control. If you are around her she cant make up her mind. She knows what she wants but she sabotages it. The worst part of this whole thing is that she said her ex bf kicked her out of her own house and she couldn’t do anything about it. She painted him as a monster. I then find out they run a disc golf league as commissioners together, I had should surgery. She insisted on coming over to take care of me, she nurtured me kissed me for hours. Said she could do this forever. I noticed she was dressed a little more snazzy then usual and her hair was perfect. she told me shad he disc golf league meeting. i asked where, she said my porch,,,,,,Her ex still has their whole life on his facebook and one day i kept their private pages up and they were micromanaging narratives of their lives from pictures. She also said she wasn’t a big social media person. she was barely ever on the phone or texting when she was with me and that was a lot for 2 months. I went to her place one day and she’s playing video games and she is furious texting people on 3 different device, bing bing bing bing. I should have noticed. I treated this woman like and absolute goddess. She swooned over me. the last time i saw her were the sweet nothings i got the day of surgery where she went dressed up to a “disc golf meeting”. Im so stupid. Should have saw the signs. Also wouldn’t give me any closure when she said she would just hung up when she told me to call her, i was totally civil. Completely childish and cowardly. You don’t tell someone you want them to part of your life on Monday, tell them you are ready to let them in, and 4 days later ghost for good. This woman is a wonderful funny person. smart, sexy, tough, perseveres but theres so many half truths and lies its insane.