Spotted on these apps:
- Bumble
- badoo
- OkCupid
- Her
- Christian Mingle
- Adult Friend Finder
- Zoosk
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Recently got married, but still active on cheating apps. Presents as single. Not honest with their partner. And uses them as a provider.
As of 1/26/2026
Recently got engaged, but still active on cheating apps. Presents as single. Not honest with their partner.
She Cheated Before — But That Wasn’t Love
She’s a Christian girl, caught in another situationship.
John? He posts travel and nature pics on Instagram, saves love quotes on Pinterest, texts other women on Viber, watches fake “alpha” advice on YouTube, and plays worship songs on Spotify to seem deep.
A blue-pilled simp — image over integrity.
But she’s not innocent either.
She cheated on her last guy, hid lies, and played the victim, calling him mean to avoid facing herself.
Now, someone else is dating her.
I told him: Ask about her past.
He said, “I don’t want to hurt her feelings.”
But if the truth hurts, it’s probably still alive.
If you can’t talk about it, you haven’t healed it.
Baptism won’t erase her past — but it draws a line in the sand.
She’s done lying.
Done blaming.
Done pretending it was love when it was lust and fear.
Now it’s truth — even when it hurts.
Grace — even when it’s uncomfortable.
And forward — because going back isn’t an option.
I’ve dealt with Victoria and witnessed how she uses people, makes poor decisions, avoids accountability, and hides behind passive-aggressive behavior. She got baptized but acts like that erases years of cheating, manipulation, and bad choices. She had others help her get a car she couldn’t even drive, then got rid of it. Now she’s staging repentance online through her sister’s IG. Real change isn’t a photo op—it’s proven through consistent actions.
Has a body count of 30 (10 x 3), with the original being 10.
Victoria is a red flag—not only because of her past, but also due to her constant use of Instagram, Viber, Snapchat, and Pinterest to manipulate her image and avoid accountability. Her social media presence is more about performance than real change.
It’s frustrating trying to help Victoria change when she accuses me of treating her badly, despite my helping her get jobs and supporting her. She hides behind baptism and social media to cover up cheating, bad decisions, and manipulation. She avoids real accountability and reacts with passive-aggressive behavior. True change comes from owning your past, not making excuses or putting on fake performances.
I’ve dealt with Victoria and witnessed how she uses people, makes poor decisions, avoids accountability, and hides behind passive-aggressive behavior. She got baptized, but acts like that erases years of cheating, manipulation, and bad choices. She had others help her get a car she couldn’t even drive, then got rid of it. Now she’s staging repentance online through her sister’s IG. Real change isn’t a photo op—it’s proven through consistent actions.