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Temper your expectations!!!
He’s in his fake holy era — mirror selfies, travel pics, and Christian music on YouTube/Spotify like he’s rebranding his soul. His new girl’s getting baptized, so now he’s quoting scripture and acting pure. But behind the scenes? Still sliding in DMs and running the same game. New aesthetic, same lies.
She Cheated Before — But That Wasn’t Love
She’s a Christian girl, caught in another situationship.
John? He posts travel and nature pics on Instagram, saves love quotes on Pinterest, texts other women on Viber, watches fake “alpha” advice on YouTube, and plays worship songs on Spotify to seem deep.
A blue-pilled simp — image over integrity.
But she’s not innocent either.
She cheated on her last guy, hid lies, and played the victim — calling him mean to avoid facing herself.
Now, someone else is dating her.
I told him: Ask about her past.
He said, “I don’t want to hurt her feelings.”
But if the truth hurts, it’s probably still alive.
If you can’t talk about it, you haven’t healed it.
Baptism won’t erase her past — but it draws a line in the sand.
She’s done lying.
Done blaming.
Done pretending it was love when it was lust and fear.
Now it’s truth — even when it hurts.
Grace — even when it’s uncomfortable.
And forward — because going back isn’t an option.