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Oh wow! I dated Brenton and then found out he was married! I would never date a married guy. He said he was divorced but the internet don’t lie. Turns out he was cheating on his wife AND me AND another girl. So glad I didn’t fall into this trap.
I want to be upfront about Brenton because I’ve seen his true nature and I think it’s important for others to know. He’s one of the most manipulative and dishonest people I’ve ever encountered. He’s extremely skilled at gaslighting, making you doubt yourself and your feelings. He’ll shower you with love and attention—love bombing you—trying to make you feel like the only person who truly understands him. He’s very good at adjusting himself to fit whatever you want in a partner, pretending to be your dream guy.
But the truth is, he’s a serial cheater and a manipulator. He uses women for his own narcissistic and sociopathic games, and eventually, he will ghost you without warning once he’s gotten what he wants.
Girls, be very cautious with him. He can make you feel like a princess—so charming and attentive—but beneath that facade, he’s dangerous. He’s not who he seems to be, and I genuinely believe he’s capable of hurting people emotionally and perhaps more. Stay away from him to protect your heart and your well-being.