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He is 36 years old, lives in Lisbon Falls ME, he was super nice when first talking to me, gave me his number the first and second day of talking I found that weird. Says on his profile he is looking for short-term dating and long-term dating. He calmed he was inserted in me but sent a text saying he wanted to “try the goods first”. I am not looking for that at all. He told me to let him think on it. I had no idea what “it meant” and because he was someone new, I had no idea how long he needed to think, and he never bothered to say something like he needed to be left along and would message when he can talk again. I left him along for the night them sent a message asking if all was well. A few days go by, and he tells me he’s had time to think is not ready for a relationship with everything going on in his life. I am obviously going to respect anyone wishes when they tell me that. The he says that was a test message and I failed it, I asked him what he was testing me on and to my surprise he said he’s been testing me on everything for the last few days and I failed every test. To me that is very childish not to communicate with someone, led that he led me on then thinks it’s okay to be mad at me for thinking he was telling the truth. He calms he’s divorced but I really don’t know. Ladies please be careful when getting to know him and know he lies a lot and gets mad when he is caught in his lies and called out on his behavior.