Channing, 23

One of his tattoos is a dagger on his hand and I think a cross on his forearm. Over the span of 8 months I’ve discovered that he’s narcissistic and either has bipolar disorder or borderline personality disorder. He’d love bomb you and then switch up on you in an instant with no warning getting disrespectful, irate,volatile,warning you he’s crazy,saying you don’t mean shit to him and then an hour later or sometimes the next day he’ll apologize say he doesn’t know what happened and try to act like everything is fine. The latest and last time before I decided this was getting scary and cut it off he did the same thing, started the day fine chatting planning our day to play video games on my day off and next thing I know he’s having a bipolar split again verbally attacking me out of nowhere saying the girl he told me he blocked he’s been talking to the whole time, saying he’s been messing around with his ex and sleeping with someone since the day we met. Warned me that he knows where I live and that he was going to hurt me. I’ve never done anything to this guy, I’ve been caring, supportive, tried to encourage him to finally get a job, get a car,go to school like he mentioned, go after his goals, he’s been couch surfing with different relatives, I was there when he cried over the phone about his problems and family issues. Mothered him when he was sick. So his random change in his mood and behavior is not normal to me and is concerning..he had mentioned when I told him he needed to get his anger issues under control that as a kid he was diagnosed and medicated for something but said he couldn’t remember what. I’m guessing it was for bipolar, BPD or something along those lines and it’s something he should still be taking because I really think he’s mentally unstable and could be dangerous with his switching up and outbursts. I’m mainly making this to warn other women that may be talking with him of this. We had a long distance relationship so his abuse toward me was verbal as well as threats..but I don’t want to think what could have happened to me in person if he went off the deep end like that.