Spotted on these apps:
- Hinge
- Bumble
- Tinder
- Plenty of Fish
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What the…??? He told me his name is Tom, says so on his profile too?? I thought something was shady and sneaky with all the times he disappears and “can’t talk” but I told myself he’s just busy. Same MO with me, flirty and sweet but also suddenly icy and also rather misogynistic and not respectful of women in general. Wow.
Paul from Indianola is seeing numerous women at the same time. He doesn’t tell partners about each other, makes it seem like he’s committed when really he’s hiding people and just in it for fun. He laid on the sensitivity and kindness up front, made it seem like he wanted a real relationship with me. I couldn’t figure out why we always hid at home or his shop. Then I discovered he was cheating on me with multiple women at the same time. He was so amazing at the beginning, and then I saw the manipulative, punishing, cold side of him. Pay attention to gut instincts and red flags.