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Kdell 27 or 30, Mississauga and Barrie. Major red flags.
I had posted him back in April but my post has disappeared. I just want to warn others since I went through hell with this man. I’ve been lied to since the day we met. I really wish I never met him. We met at the beginning of January and broke up mid May sue tot he fact I found out he was convicted of assault on his ex, back in 2021 I believe. He’s still on probation for that. He just got accused of assault by another ex and he’s currently going through court for that. He has a baby on the way with that last ex. He also claimed to be 33 when we met but his health card says he is 27. He tells me he is 30 but doesn’t have any proof to show for that. We had been dating for 4.5 months when everything came out about the assault. The only reason I found out was because he went to go see his ex and she called the cops on him and he got arrested. He also got lap dances from strippers while we were in a relationship. Like lying comes so easy to him, it’s literally his first instinct. When I asked about when the video of the lap dance was taken he looked me straight in the eyes and said it was a long time ago but when I saw the time stamp it was actually on the day before his birthday and we were exclusive at that time. Even after catching him in the lie he kept insisting it was taken a long time ago. I also found a video he took of an escort he slept with. She was naked in bed eating and he was filming her (she seemed to know she was being filmed). He had previously told me he didn’t sleep with her but that video says otherwise. Btw I didn’t go snooping, he was literally sitting beside me while going through his albums when I saw these videos. He forgot he had them apparently.
He was also back on the dating apps after we had the exclusivity talk. I was in touch with one of the women who he was talking to and she was shocked because he comes off as so sweet and innocent. HE’S NOT. He’s convinced that he’s the victim in his life and it’s women in his life who cause trouble. I’m so glad he’s out of my life and I hope nobody else falls for his lies.