Spotted on these apps:
- Tinder
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I’m so happy I’m old and guys my age are 2 lazy to do crap like this, LOL. I feel for you ladies I don’t think I could handle being in my 20s and 30s in this day and age. The guys are ridiculous!
So sorry to hear this happened to you.
Did you video with him first on the dating app? I’m think we that and not allow dinner dates until we switch numbers.
Also, some guys will walk out before the bill shows up and leave the girl with a hefty bill after getting bottles of champagne.
At times let server know you’re on a date and to get his card beforehand. Lolll.
Just seeing this, not too far from firefly and would meet you.
Please, please ALWAYS have a picture, or a few, of the man you’re about to go meet. Share the pictures with a trusted friend and let them know where you’re meeting, then text them when you’ve arrived home.
I’m 50, tall, and heavy, thus not an easy victim, and I still let someone know who I’m meeting up with. Bonus points if your trusted person is in law enforcement.
Next time always grab screen grabs of the people you’re meeting… you never know when they might come in handy
I would be worried he watched you show up to the location. He craves control and power over situations because he’s probably a very weak individual in real life.
this is why I always suggest video chats, a couple of phone conversations and asking questions before taking the time to meet up. Take the time to get to know them before meeting and there’s less of a chance they’ll stick around to play games.
This is a whole thing actually. I saw it was a trend on twitter abt guys doing to humble women from how many times they were stood up. Its weird and psychotic lol
Well I just got stood up by a Joshua from Tinder.
We had plans for 7pm at Firefly, connected over the weekend, confirmed the times this afternoon, and he unmatched with me as soon as it turned 7pm.
UPDATE: I posted his picture in the comments. Someone found him!