Keith, 47

I recently posted, because I felt the man I was dating monogamously was not being honest. It was a last resort for me, I posted here and found that he was talking to a woman that is on here. She Possibly is dating him. She told me where he lived, hiw his son had been in the hospital a few weeks ago, while I was with him. How he was wanting to see her because she was only 2 miles from his home, I live 40 minutes from his home, but I’m glad I posted, because it made me make my final decision of ending the relationship. He was liar at 58!! He finally admitted he also dated another woman the week before just 8 hours after I left his home after 3 days there! this was a man that was saying he wanted to marry me, that was saying he was falling in love with me just days before. He had been at my my home the night I posted…..so you’re not wrong for trying to watch out for yourself. The women on here that are sharing information with the man should not! It shows their maturity level. As women we need to be safe, I’m almost 65 and I’ve had countless men that have lied to me, abused me, gone out of me, my ex-husband had another place of living and would intentionally start fights with me so he could leave,when I was married to him, so yes, we women need to look out for each other, support each other, and realize that there are a few good men out there… But there’s so many with the online dating that are playing games… abusive and using woman for their own self gratification! Many men are playing with our lives and hearts. We deserve better!
I hope that the women that chose to contact him Will learn that this could happen to them. Also, they shouldn’t be on the site if they’re going to run and share the information with the man they could’ve simply posted to you that he was a good guy or whatever was honest. I’m sorry this happened to you.